Knowledge is the key to understanding. study your family history, study your country's history, study world history and study salvation history. As your knowledge increases, so does your self understanding.
When a baby is born it is a blank canvass. it's process of learning begins in the cradle and continues throughout life. Initially learnings come from observation and experience, followed up by education in schools and universities. Education throughout life needs to be ongoing to be of any benefit to the person to grow their knowledge base. A good education enables people to have a tacit understanding of why things are the way they are.
Neither should you forget those who have gone before you. they set the foundation to give you the opportunity to shine. Never forget those upon whose shoulders you stand.
Throughout history, I have helped many people find their way. I could help you also, if you would only ask.
Fear nothing and educate yourself, call on me and I will help you.